Watch Your Words

Recently, I was reminded once again about the power of words. Once spoken aloud, you can try to take them back but it’s nearly impossible (This is particularly true in this age of digital manipulation and sound bites; but I digress).

Written words have impact, too, of course. We all remember compelling quotes and often use them as beacons for our life path. Sometimes we even hang them on our walls as a reminder. Other’s words, spoken or written, have tremendous power. The strange thing is, while we remember words that soothe, nurture and inspire, we often remember more clearly words of criticism and negation, words that hurt or slight us. “Throw shade,” I think, is the popular, current term.

I remember comments made to me decades ago. I remember the way they made me feel. At times, they still hurt. So hear me out. Watch what you say. Watch what you write. Be sure if you choose to speak, that you understand the meaning of your words. Try to be certain you understand the feelings you are trying to convey.

Too often, we forget to be kind. Be kind.