Lifelong
friends are a rarity, aren’t they? As I listened to two of my dearest friends
on a three way call recently, (One of the times I really love technology) I was
reminded of so many years and shared experiences. We live on literally opposite
ends of the country but their voices remain as constant as our laughter.
There
is a lot of talk about family in our lives and truly that remains my constant
and my barometer for values, integrity, love and loyalty. For some people
family is their barometer for “what not
to do.” I was truly just lucky. Unfortunately, my family is spread across the
nation, from coast to coast. Just like my two oldest friends.
When
I think about my daily life, I honestly don’t know how I would function without
my friends that are here. Some people drift in and out but a special few are steady.
We don’t live in each other’s pockets, but I see them frequently. A dinner, a
brunch, a shopping excursion…. All really just an excuse to talk. Sometimes to
complain about daily things, ask advice, share time. Almost always, laughter
and appreciation is involved.
I
think I have said this before, but I believe one of the most sacred and
meaningful parts of life is in your relationships. They take a little care and
nurturing, but are so worth it. I don’t take them for granted. I acknowledge
them and am grateful.